Wanted: A Soulmate
Where Is My Soulmate?
Tom's currently seeking a soulmate!!!
Art is the window to man's soul. Without it, he would never be able to see beyond his immediate world; nor could the world see the man within.-- Lady Bird Johnson
"Money is of no value to me. Love gives you more. You can't get rid of love, when you give more, you get more." --Warren Buffett
Would you like to be my friend? No commitment required! The only requirement is you are genuinely authentic and sincere. I'm just fed up with fakers and scammers I could spot miles away like hawks. You know what I mean? hahaha. I said no commitment but at least what I'm expecting from you is the courtesy of privacy. What happens here stays here. What do I expect from this friendship, hook ups? No, I'm looking for my life partner and very serious about it. I consider this is the first step toward my goal. But don't worry. You are still safe with me even if it doesn't go well. I'm not obsessive. I'm decent and if you're looking for the same thing, you won't regret this.
First of all I wanna tell you how depressed I am. Daily news was telling me that a famous mass murderer Charles Manson(80) who'd been locked up for a long time had actually a 26-year-old girlfriend outside of prison who was waiting eagerly to get married to him. And in a movie 'Warm Bodies,' I happened to watch last night, which was a zombie version of 'Twilight,' even a young zombie (walking corpse for Christ's sake!) had a warmhearted smart hot teenage girlfriend who was, very much alive and healthy. Are you kidding me? That is absolutely insulting the girl-friendless guys like me a big time. I know nobody told me that life is fair, but it is a little bit too much to bear. Don't you think so? The question is raised; Why can I have a girlfriend? I'm not gay. LOL
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a freedom fighter. I don't have a wife and a kid ever before but I love to have one someday. A girlfriend/soulmate/wife would be nice to have in my life. I like to write a couple of non-fictions or children's books for Japanese or American readers. Because I believe I should. I have unique experiences through my journey from Japan to USA. It is not a success story by all means but a true story of my life time soul searching. The art is a canary in a coal mine. I love a country where individuals are flourishing, so is the art. I like the idea that all men created equal without a king & a queen or an emperor. I despise the communism or dictatorship, under which the art is smothered. Where is a bluebird anyway? Which I had been chasing all those years. If you happen to be a writer, you can help me a lot as a co-writer.
I’m really good at
mingling among human species. Seriously I am really good at dancing with music. I love disco dancing, but got bored then took some salsa lessons. And I used to be an excellent pool player in a bar a few years back and people there called me a champ. I didn't bet to play because I was not a hustler and it took fun out of the game. I don't go there any more. My interest moved to another thing. I can skate on ice, and was into rollerblading for a year.
I'm really not good at playing mind games. So I don't like playing games for a romance either. You are picky. Fine with me. I am picky too. But please don't play hard to get. I am a terrible mind reader. I would give up before the game even began. Life is short and there is no time to waste. I prefer to hear a straight answer of whether you like me or not. So we could both move on and move on fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
How should I know? I have never asked anyone about that. Maybe my goofy round face and short stature which make me look a lot like a Panda bear, LOL. But I can stand on two legs and miraculously walk like a normal human being.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"One sees clearly only with the heart. What is essential is invisible to the eye." The favorite quote from my favorite book, 'Le Petit Prince' by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, where my handle name's idea came from. At college, I used to enjoy reading some of the works by Hermann Hesse, Thomas Mann, Goethe, Yasunari Kawabata, Tohson Shimazaki etc. I was inspired by the life story of Jack London and Ernest Hemingway.
My favorite sports to watch on TV are College football/NFL, Super Bowl, Sweet 16, World Series, World Cup, Olympic games, and more. I used to religiously watch US/French Open Tennis, Wimbledon, WWF(Wrestling), pro boxing title match games, but no more. I was a big NFL football fan. But my enthusiasm faded away somehow since Joe Montana didn't play the quarterback anymore due to his retirement. The excitement level was totally different back then when he was on the field. I loved to see him lead his team to improbable comeback win again and again and again. It was so incredible to see as if each game was scripted for him and his team.
I am a long time Los Angeles Angels fan, mainly because I have the tendency to root for an underdog and they with Mike Scioscia as a manager used to be an only winning team against NY Yankees in the past. I used to be fond of Seattle Mariners because of Suzuki Ichiro but they lost me. I know a lot about baseball and MLB teams.
Favorite comedy on TV: I used to love watching 'I Dream of Jeannie', 'Bewitched', 'Family Ties', 'Seinfeld', 'The Big Bang Theory.' If I had time, I would watch the following TV shows: 'Jeopardy!', PBS 'Nova', 'Home Time', 'This Old House', 'Globe Trekker', 'Rudy Maxa’s World', 'Rick Steves' Europe', 'Burt Wolf: Travels & Traditions', Live Well Network: 'Motion', 'Mirror/Mirror', 'Knock It Off!', 'Steven and Chris', 'Deals', 'Home with Lisa Quinn', 'Laura McKenzie's Traveler' and more.
I love eating Sushi but I can eat almost anything or any ethnic
food. Not a picky eater. Please don't confuse, but the Japanese
don't eat a dog meat. No exception here, lol. If I don't have money,
I am happy to eat a 'Spicy Chickin' from Carl's Jr.
The six things I could never do without
Hmmm, oxygen, food, water, sun, earth and sleep? Oh yeah, not in a science class? Let me see, my Samsung Note 2 and Toyota SUV? Maybe yes in California. But they can still be replaced by the other technologies and transportation. But I can tell you that for sure I don't want to exist without the followings. I mean without them this world would not be worth for me living:
1. Hope(or God or whatever it is).
2. Goodness of humanity.
5. Logic (the good sense of common sense).
6. Art(Creativity and/or something beautiful/delicious/good/nice in my eyes or four other senses; In the breathtaking nature including a human body/face so beautiful that I could see GOD's fine works).
7. Good laugh. Oh, this is extra but I need it as a stress reliever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
misty woody mountains and delicious bamboo trees that taste like a chicken. It's my nature call as a Panda bear. Seriously, I'm thinking of the book I am writing about the fascinating real life of living on mean streets of USA for Japanese readers.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not sure what my typical Friday is, but maybe reading domestic and global news especially about USA and Japan or writing some opinionated essay in my sites or watching movie&TV are highly likely unless I have some chore to do such as shoppings. Or thinking of munching delicious bamboo trees. lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I reveal it to you, I have to kill you later. Just kidding. I studied cosmetology and got a license for it even though not too good with handling egotistical, selfish, narcissistic and superficial people at all. I am a dork with glasses. But don't let my appearance fool you, I was once a young student athlete who won a championship.
You should message me if
after finishing reading my profile, you felt warm inside. And you have a friendly beautiful smile. Then we will get along fine. Let's start a beautiful friendship first. I prefer emailing and get to know each other and then see what happens from there.
According to OKCupid, over 180 girls here like me and the number's still growing. Really? When did that happen! I only need one girl. The number doesn't mean anything until I find a girl who is opening up her heart and we start engaging a serious conversation. I'm not an A list member here, so messaging me is only way to get me noticed. Emailing and texting are a great beginning.
I'm not a serial dater. I'm expecting you aren't either. I don't like a game as I said it before. With a lot of life experience and common sense, I can tell who you are instantaneously by just reading what you write about in an email. I can sniff out a gold digger or a scammer or whatever it is a mile away like a werewolf, lol. I can eliminate a lot of nonsense that way to find a right one, if any.
“When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make lemonade.” Or a lemon wedge for a drink, lol.
Compatibility is a most important element in relationship. Age is just a number. Young and old, tall and short. I don't mind much. What I mind is you should have some kind of an esprit or passion in life to bring out the best in me. I'm not just like everyone else. I don't follow the crowd.
I am looking for a long lovely relationship. Through exchanging emails, hopefully we become a friend or a soul mate of some sort before we actually will meet. I like to know you better. In that way, we'll save our time and hassle. Don't judge a book by its cover. You have to read it through. You not just read it but you need to understand it as well. I might throw at you a curve ball time to time. So you should get ready for that too. Anyway you need a lot of patience to get to know me for sure. lol
The followings are a big plus:
You love watching movies, listening music, and reading books,
or you love traveling to the old Europe or Machu Picchu in Peru,
or you love Sushi,
or you love dancing,
or you love hugging,
or you love letting me make you smile,
or you are sexy(This gets you double bonus points), LOL
or all of above.
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